I was recently on youtube and was watching a Youtube channel by the name of sweet addictions tv. It's a show comprised of two African-American women who talk about everything. This particular video started off as a discussion about the lack of representation of black women in the media especially in music videos. Then it led to black men who when they achieve a certain level of success the women on their arm goes from dark to light. Looking at the responses from presumably black men about the topic prompted me to write. They said black women are loud, don't have thier ish together, talk down to them, constantly bring drama, they never let up, and the list goes on. So because of it they date outside their race.
My response: You are what you attract so in other words if you ain't shit you attract the same. So to say you always end up with someone who brings drama means that subciously you crave drama. If you have your B.I.-business together you will find women who have it together as well as you do. If you stop acting like little boys you will attract women. As a young black men I don't see many black men who really truly have it together. I see stunters, men who front in front of others as being successful when in all actuality they can't pay their bills or child support and their life is a mess. Most black men act like little children; they like to show off, they're irrational, they choose emotion over logic. Much like children. So if this is the way you behave how can you not attract a partner who behaves as out of control as you do. I have no problem with interracial dating but when your principles for choosing to do so are idoitic I take a problem with. Black women are not some rare species where they are the only ones who are loud,controlling, and every other reason in the book as you choose not to mess with them. All women are.
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