Letter to Ms.Angel

Fellas and Ladies do you really take this girl seriously. Me personally I do not. Let me tell you why. If you come in this game as a model and build your brand or your claim to fame selling sex with your ass out in KING magazine then suddenly 4 years later you decide to become a rapper. Please

I saw a video of her talking about how Trina and Jacki-O can appear on the covers of mens magazine and be takin seriously as female mcs. When I first heard of the aforementioned artists it was on the radio because they had songs on the radio because they were artists. The first time I saw Angel was in a G-string butt spread in Smooth. You're brand is urban modeling. You don't talk in modeling you're paid to look good. If you want a man to respect the words coming out of your mouth you have to lead with your words and mind. So that means no cleavage, no short skirts, none of the shenanigans. Condeleeza Rice, Michelle Obama, Oprah Winfrey, and Hilary Clinton are attractive women but you don't see them leading with their breasts. Why? Because they have minds and have decided to use them to gain success in their endeavors. What's funny is that both Jacki-O and Trina sell sex but you see the difference between Angel and them is they have skill to back up their rhymes. Her music is pitiful and she claims she's putting her heart and soul into. Her heart=Epic Fail. That's the real reason she gets no love is because she comes across as a video model trying to make an extra buck by fake rapping. In my world she got an epic fail. Dropping it like its hot in 50 Cent video does not a Lil Kim make. Women get your business in order. Please

THIS JIGGA RIGHT HERE.....

The man pictured above is Desmond Hatchett who lives in Knoxville, Tennessee is 29 with 21 kids. DAYUUUUUUUM! Is it really like that Homie. But here's the kicker he works a minimum wage job so after the government takes his child support monies and divides it among 15 women some only get 1.98. Now that's some bull. I love my black people but bull like this makes me itch. I blame every women who laid down with this poor excuse for a man and as well as I blame him. He's been reported as saying he's had 4 kids in 1 year. I can barely take care of myself what do I look like bringing 4 lives in the world, well neither can he. I wish people had sex with intention and purpose. Then maybe you'd think that if I have sex maybe just maybe I might get pregnant. I can only speak of what I know but I see so many people bringing lives into this world with no purpose. These little babies you have grow to adults who will run around like bumbling idoits with no purpose like you. Now there are 21 lives who will more than likely grow up without fathers because you failed to use something as simple as a condom. Sponges, pills, shots, patches, condoms, spermicide – how does a mofo literally get pregnant in this day and age? Those women should thank god a baby was the only thing he gave them. He knew he couldn't take care of the first kid so he just keep doing it until he got 21 kids. Really? That's how we getting down in 2009 I guess. Typical Niggas is back in style. These women knew this jigga wasn't worth two cents yet they all did the benevolence raw with this fool so they could make a baby he couldn't afford. People we gotta be more responsible than this. What's even sadder is this made national news another misprepresenation of black men.

Respect When Respect Is Due

“…..The R. Kelly we all grew to love was innovative, witty, & trendsetting. If you were to say that R. Kelly has excited you musically as of late, I would question your ears. When I heard JayZ’s “Death of Autotune” my first thought was when will R. Kelly stop using it; The King of R&B with a autotune filled mixtape (not to mention a auto tuned “Double Up” album) disappoints me. If throwing rocks at the throne wakes up the King, consider them thrown.”

-Trey Songz in response to the release of his song Death of An Autotune(R.Kelly diss)

Okay i find so many things wrong with Trey Songz and this Kells "battle". Battle is in quotes because all you have to do is look at the facts. R. Kelly has been in the game for 20 years and managed to stay relevant in today's "next big thing" crazed society. He's sold millions upon millions of albums. While many many R&B male artists have fallen back R.Kelly is still here autotune and all. Meanwhile Trey Songz has only been around for 4 years so trying to compete with someone who's been doing this for 20 years is crazy. I understand his reasoning. But it's still disrespectful. Trey Songz says it's a competition I say it's not. For all the women swooning he ain't selling records, However R.Kelly has sold and continues to sell millions of records. Lets compare hits, well we cant cuz' Trey doesn't have a large enough catalog of hits to compete. It's like Britney telling Madonna to step her game up, Ciara saying she can help Janet get her dance skills up, Beyonce giving Christina Aguilera singing pointers, Usher saying he's a better dancer than MJ. I could go on and on but you get my point. Kellz is a legend Trey Songz is not there is no competion. Kellz is legendary. Trey can fall back on this one. He comes off as opportunist trying to sell records by creating imaginary beefs.

Jungle Fever

I was recently on youtube and was watching a Youtube channel by the name of sweet addictions tv. It's a show comprised of two African-American women who talk about everything. This particular video started off as a discussion about the lack of representation of black women in the media especially in music videos. Then it led to black men who when they achieve a certain level of success the women on their arm goes from dark to light. Looking at the responses from presumably black men about the topic prompted me to write. They said black women are loud, don't have thier ish together, talk down to them, constantly bring drama, they never let up, and the list goes on. So because of it they date outside their race.

My response: You are what you attract so in other words if you ain't shit you attract the same. So to say you always end up with someone who brings drama means that subciously you crave drama. If you have your B.I.-business together you will find women who have it together as well as you do. If you stop acting like little boys you will attract women. As a young black men I don't see many black men who really truly have it together. I see stunters, men who front in front of others as being successful when in all actuality they can't pay their bills or child support and their life is a mess. Most black men act like little children; they like to show off, they're irrational, they choose emotion over logic. Much like children. So if this is the way you behave how can you not attract a partner who behaves as out of control as you do. I have no problem with interracial dating but when your principles for choosing to do so are idoitic I take a problem with. Black women are not some rare species where they are the only ones who are loud,controlling, and every other reason in the book as you choose not to mess with them. All women are.